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Dexter - Domestic Medium Hair Cat
Owner's Pet
CatDomestic Medium Hair
ProfileMale, 16 Years 8 Months
VaccinatedYes
DewormedYes
NeuteredYes
ConditionHealthy
BodyMedium Size, Medium Fur
ColorBrown, Cream
LocationDamansara, Selangor
Posted12 Oct 2009 (Updated 21 May 2010)
 
Owner
  81 Comments
I stumbled upon Dexter at a time when I needed a pet companion. My husband and I saw him through a glass window at a pet shop in Damansara Utama. Clearly he was an adult cat way too big for his cage. Upon queries, we found out he had been caged all 2 years of his life in the petshop, hardly let out except for occasional baths. I stayed with him in the shop for almost an hour, playing with him, coaxing him out of the cage slowly. I was not in the habit of buying pets from petshops but I knew I had to remove him from his current conditions.

As we were due for our Jakarta trip the next day, we couldn't take him home immediately, so we paid a
booking fee and reluctantly left for our 4 day trip. I couldn't get my mind off him throughout the trip. That was the first time an animal had touched me so deeply. Upon our return we
immediately took him home. That was on 20th August 09.

At home, Dexter was very very timid, we had to keep him in a small room and barricaded a small cosy corner for him since he was caged for a long time. He displayed various symptoms of a traumatized cat, timid, unsocialised, didn't know how to play,
terrified of human contact and he had to be coaxed to eat. For a
long time he didn't know how to enjoy treats and would only eat what's served in the feeding bowl. He didn't appreciate toys either.

It took him about a week before he started exploring our home and for the longest time he would seek solace under our TV console and would only come out when we went to bed. With an extreme amount if patience, TLC as well as the introduction of
our female cat Sophie about a month later, Dexter turned to be such a special boy. He's very expressive and vocal. You can see from his face if he's angry, upset, comfortable or sulking. He doesn't make the usual meowing sounds but kind of a babyish gurgle. He constantly needs people around although he
absolutely hates being carried or cuddled. He loves his head stroked and tummy rubbed. Dexter really reminds me of a baby. He cries when he wakes up from sleep so we have to reassure him tht he's not alone. Sometimes he gets nightmares (I believe) and wakes up with a start, yowling. Only when we call out to him does he calm down and fall back to sleep...Every now and hen we see changes in him. Sometimes for the good, sometimes not LOL.

Recently he discovered he can push a door open if it's ajar. If the room door is tightly closed, he'll bash his body against the door with a loud thud til I open it! LOL.

Dexter is still a highly stressed cat, changes in environment like boarding stresses him so he's prone to fungus attacks tho he
recovers very quickly. He's still wary of strangers and still very antisocial and is only comfortable with me and my daughter. He comes when he's called and now dominate the couch :)

I'm glad I was there for him as he is there for me now. He's far from a perfect cat but neither am I a perfect human so we compliment eachother well. Although he drives me crazy at times especially when he decides he needs to do some territorial
markings around the house, I can't imagine home without him...

That's the story of my Dexter :)
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Dexter sleeping peacefully on the sofa
Dexter sleeping peacefully on the sofa


Sedap tengok Dex tido dlm Aircon :)
Sedap tengok Dex tido dlm Aircon :)


Dexter and Sophie berjalan dgn jayanya ke arah their favorite can food :)
Dexter and Sophie berjalan dgn jayanya ke arah their favorite can food :)


Dexter - Domestic Medium Hair Cat


Dexter - Domestic Medium Hair Cat


Dexter - Domestic Medium Hair Cat


Dexter - Domestic Medium Hair Cat


Dexter - Domestic Medium Hair Cat


Dexter - Domestic Medium Hair Cat


Dexter - Domestic Medium Hair Cat


Dexter - Domestic Medium Hair Cat


Dexter - Domestic Medium Hair Cat


Dexter - Domestic Medium Hair Cat


They love lounging together at the sliding door overlooking the garden
They love lounging together at the sliding door overlooking the garden


Some peace and quiet time for me when they sleep heehehe
Some peace and quiet time for me when they sleep heehehe


Sophie tido terbongkang hehehe
Sophie tido terbongkang hehehe


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Errrr...watching TV?
Errrr...watching TV?


ohhh my handsome boy :)
ohhh my handsome boy :)


Dexter at home
Dexter at home


The sight of him that broke my heart
The sight of him that broke my heart


Dexter's favourite spot (used to be)
Dexter's favourite spot (used to be)


Dexter in the room at home
Dexter in the room at home




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Comments
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SarahMelanie   Dec 15th 2009 at 2:13PM
how sweet Dex..hamsap tu ape Fareen Aznor?
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Fareen   Dec 15th 2009 at 2:17PM
hahaha..Sarah, horny in Cantonese :P
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SarahMelanie   Dec 15th 2009 at 2:35PM
HI hi hi hi...new word learn from new frends..maybe could us the same word to polpot.. :)
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CikLola   Dec 15th 2009 at 2:37PM
sbuk sket...pkataan baru..besh3 leh gune..ngeh3x
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Fareen   Dec 15th 2009 at 2:43PM
hahaha...tu yang best country multiracial ni. Mcm2 bahasa ada :) Sarah, where are you from btw?
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SarahMelanie   Dec 15th 2009 at 3:46PM
Sipitang Sabah...but in KL for many years already.. :)
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Crool   Dec 15th 2009 at 3:48PM
patutla bila ku tinguk2 kan muka kak sarah ni mcm urang sabah jugak..
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macgyverjune   Dec 15th 2009 at 3:55PM
Another Sabahan!!!Sarah u look betul2 Sabahan.hehehehe!! Me,from KK.
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CatMother   Dec 15th 2009 at 3:58PM
Wahhhh syiok nya dpt jmp ramai geng sabah di sini....
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Crool   Dec 15th 2009 at 4:03PM
mmg best kan...sorry ah kak fareen guna profile dexter.....hehe
jejak kasih dulu kijap...hehe
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Fareen   Dec 15th 2009 at 4:09PM
ahahha...Crool, tak pe, Rumah ku pintu pagar nya sentiasa terbuka with Dexter menunggu kat pintu hehehehe
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Crool   Dec 15th 2009 at 4:13PM
hehe...nak kalahkan daneil ni...hehe......sambutan vvip juga...hehe.... best2...hehe
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Fareen   Dec 15th 2009 at 4:15PM
ehhehe...Deanil level tinggi sikit. Red carpetnya lebih panjang sbb ramai kucing. Dan kucingnya suma dari overseas hahaaahhahahah
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Crool   Dec 15th 2009 at 4:21PM
hehe......ala akak letak la carpet warna brown...haiz....klu carpet merah tu untuk VVIP sja....klu crool ni org biasa2 jak...hehe... mcm mane progress ASH yg kakak nak import tu?
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Fareen   Dec 15th 2009 at 4:35PM
Kelakar lah Crool. ASH tu tengah mengumpul duit. Tulah, kalau baca profile kak fareen, mungkin ada budak hensem pan asian nak bagi donation :P
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Acqua   Dec 15th 2009 at 4:38PM
kak fareen sbahan meh?
mcm x je..
sbb ayat kak fareen lain ckit..
ya..
tu yg best multiratial nih..
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Fareen   Dec 15th 2009 at 4:42PM
Taklah Aznor. Kak Fareen orang tetap KL. Bila kat listing ni, tonggang tebalik ayat2 melayan si Crool nih kekekekke
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Acqua   Dec 15th 2009 at 4:44PM
ohh..
i baru prasan ..
golongan majoriti kat sini..
cikgu n sabahan kan..
he2..

crool: mana pi dua hari menghilang?
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Crool   Dec 15th 2009 at 4:54PM
ye ker...sepa budak pan asia tu...adakah seorang yg misteri lg... (misteri nusantara) ...kekeke....haiz....budak tu handsome kan....mcm artis jer....hehe jatuh cinta pandang pertama aku kak.....keke...adui...hehe...nak bg donation....adui derma la utk gue sekali.....shehe

aznor: hehe, crool pegi pavillion hari ahad tu ..jumpe member dr tengah hari samapi la ke mlm....hehe gara2 kaoroke sket lg terlepas train nak g kl sentral...hehe
kemarin.....g tgk taylors new campus...kat puchong tu
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Fareen   Dec 15th 2009 at 4:58PM
hahaha Crool. Gambar dia tu mcm pose magazine mangga hehehhe. Mmg jejaka misteri itu *bila sebut misteri je, asap2 semua keluar* hahaha.
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